I was talking to a friend about not being able to get a busty girl to meet up with him over at his place before they went out. This got me thinking about after-parties and whatnot, and the inability of most men being able to get girls to come over. So what are guys doing wrong? Before I get started, let me give you an idea of where I’m coming from. Most of the friends that I actually hang around are BBW, and I’ve spent a considerable amount of time around them, which kind of gives me a perspective that other guys just don’t get to see. This perspective is what lets me stay one step ahead of every other guy. In short, I know how chubby women think. Alright, so some of you guys meet women and try to get them to come over before going to a bar. Most of the time, it doesn’t work, and I’ll tell you why. I’m going to make this very clear to you: unless you’re one of the only cool people that said girl knows (i.e. most of her friends never go out), or she has friends that are also heading over to your place, getting her to come over just isn’t going to happen. Get that through your head right now.

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Next, you should understand that if a chubby woman is going to a decently nice bar or nightclub, you can just about forget her coming over and hanging out before heading out. Why? Because it takes these girls FOREVER to get ready before going out (2-3 hours). Almost all of the female friends I have don’t even arrive at the bars until around midnight. Not because they’re just sitting around, but because it takes them forever to get ready when they’re going somewhere nice. Are there BBW that will meet up with you before going out? Yes. Like I said, it might happen if you’re one of the only cool people that she knows, and she will come over if the two of you have common friends meeting you at your place. Busty girls might also come over if they just plan on doing something very casual, like going to a dive bar or local house party. Why? Because it isn’t going to take them forever to get dressed and they MIGHT have some time to burn. And keep in mind that this is assuming that she plans on going to the same place as you.

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Moving on to the after-party, why doesn’t it work most of the time? There are two reasons. Reason number one being that the girl(s) is afraid of getting raped. What’s really interesting about this, is that girls never say anything about worrying about getting raped when it is just one guy that they’re thinking about leaving with. Rape isn’t really a serious concern until there is more than one guy. When they see that there is more than just you, then they start to worry about you and your group of buddies trying to run a train. I’ve had BBW want to spend the night with me simply because the other guy that they were considering leaving with had his buddies with him, and said busty girls weren’t about to put themselves in a position to have a train ran on them, even though they wanted sex. A lot of girls want to go home and make-out with, hang with, or have sex with the occasional guy they meet, but that doesn’t mean that they want to risk multiple guys attempting to do whatever with them.

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If you’re planning on leaving with a chubby girl, whether it is for sex, or just to hang out as friends, you are much better off leaving alone (and making sure that she knows that you don’t intend on bringing your buddies). The more people that you have with you, the worse off you are. I’ve never had a girl really hesitate to leave with me when it was just me. The hesitation usually comes when I have other guys with me. This is the main reason why I don’t really fuck with the whole wingman thing. Some of you think that you are better off if you have an entourage, consisting of guys and plus size girls. That still works against you. The girl(s) in question have probably been talking to you all night long and only really feel comfortable around you. When you bring other people into the equation that they don’t know, they’re going to feel uneasy about it. Entourages can look cool in a bar, but when it comes time to leave, you’re better off without them. You should be leaving with you, her, and possibly her friends. The more people that are around that she doesn’t know, the more uneasy she’s going to feel about leaving with you.

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And finally, if you’re really trying to be a friendly guy and have an after-party of sorts, then make it worth it. Think about it. Every other guy is trying to pull the after-party bit. She’s heard it a million times. She can go anywhere and drink after she leaves the bar (hence why generic after-parties work well with under-agers, but not with BBW that can easily get alcohol). If you’re trying to get women to leave with you to come hang out for a party of sorts, then it’s MUCH more likely to happen if you happen to have something not so generic in mind, such as going to a strip club (yes, some chubby girls do like strip clubs), or an exclusive after-hours bar.

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